Are you afraid that now go ahead with the funeral and everyone back to their normal functions, which will be slowly forgotten your loved one? Or do you wonder what you could do it pretty clear that the deceased was still a part of your family and will always be so?
There are many things you can do if the deceased is to honor and simultaneously to keep his memory alive. In many cases, the road to the person who is a source of wisdom and humor, the last for CANYear and a source of inspiration in life.
Here are ten ways are starting to show love, even if they are separated from your lover.
1. When the time is right (and only she knows when) you tell your favorite story about one loves. Could be a funny story or one that shows his character. Choose the right place and the percentage of people with the best, and be careful to inject a natural and normal conversation.
2. At regular intervals, use your favorite recipe, whichYour loved ones enjoy eating and cooking. It could also serve his favorite dessert, with a memory, what was the conversation when it was served.
3. Plant a memory garden or a tree, shrub or flowers that bloom every year and are known as "Sarah's Garden" is called "Tree of Mary" or the work of Joe. "Select the items that are favorites of your loved one. If possible, place them in a room, so if you see out the window, and you can display themGrowth or look in the year.
4. Use your loved ones, with the names of all days. You can do this by talking to him / her every day, quietly or loudly, or you can use others that you hope they feel free to name and talk of a loved one when it comes to use them would of course say that in a given conversation.
5. During holidays, birthdays, see the Summer Outdoor Dining, anniversaries, or see a way to symbolize the presence of the beloved. UseCertainly, when one kitchen utensils, with a special voice, which belonged to the deceased to light a candle in the house and / or in church, something that made the person viewing or painting, a toast, in which the person referred to by name or hang a particular piece of jewelry or an object that identifies the person loved.
6. Do something for the community that were interested, take your loved one was in a particular organization or cause. It could be things like the preservation of part ofThe atmosphere, the sponsor for a child in an orphanage, to help the homeless or volunteer at a soup kitchen. You may also consider, on a scholarship to a college or university.
7. Listen to your loved one's favorite song or a song from your favorite artist or a television. May also be useful to find the music that was popular earlier in your life that lead to old memories for you and may their loved ones.
8. At an anniversary or other special days, ask yourbest friend to make a trip to a bookmark that you used to with your loved one. While discussing the past and the memories he recalled this visit. If you continue to reinvest in life, you can make the trip in itself, and choose your deceased loved about the good times they were there.
9. A collage of photos of a loved one, and can be designed to make home and / or office. If (in possession of a particular artistic talent orhire someone could) draw cartoons or symbols that represent the interests, character, or the ability of the person and show them in the collage. Includes a sample of the deceased at work, if any.
10. Do you have a plaque with your beloved name to sell a favorite saying (o), one of your loved one liked being engraved. Check with your local college or university, if he / she has been connected with him, if you have a donate accept a bank on campus would you describe youris his name on it. Or buy a bench and place it in your garden or in a garden cemetery.
In summary, as your loved ones is limited only by your creativity. To take into account what you learned from your loved one as he / she has helped others and how one feels he / she wants to be remembered. Ask others to trust for their contributions. Then you decide how the memory of your loved ones a lifetime of memories that will create tangible.